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Try it for yourself and find out. Just make sure you’re both fully prepared before you try.

It depends on what rumours you’ve heard!

Things can (& do) go wrong during all kinds of sex - a friend of mine threw up on her bf mid-blow job, I’ve snapped a guy’s banjo string….stuff happens!

Anal sex can be painful, and it can be messy. If you want to try it, take your time, make sure you’re relaxed, use plenty of lube, start with a finger and work your way up from there.

Try getting some equipment and giving yourself an enema first. Sounds gross to some people, but trust me- it makes the sex a lot more pleasant for both of you. Other than that, take it slow, use lots of lube, and remember that it only hurts for the first couple of minutes. And once you (or your partner) is used to it, it won’t even hurt for that long.

i advise to take it slow, and try and find a position where the girl is in control over the depth of penetration. I advise a long slow warm up, gradually increasining girth. Another thing to try is a finger in the back door during regular sex, will give her an idea about what to expect/it feels like.
Hope this helps.

i don’t think there’s anything wrong with anal sex. but like others say, it’s not a move for beginners!

Google “savage love” - and read the most recent article and some from the archives. He give VERY good sex advice, straightforward, honest, very informative about all kinds of sex!

mariama wrote:
Google “savage love” - and read the most recent article and some from the archives. He give VERY good sex advice, straightforward, honest, very informative about all kinds of sex!

thanks for me to

i had sex for the first time in japan. fun…