Relationships help: What do i do with this girl?

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What do i do with this girl?

Ok so basically theres this girl i quite like and wev been seeing alot of each other wev slept toghether and met afterwoods and stuff, anyhow recently her ex started appearing all over her fb page and stuff and posted an old photo of them making out, i kinda got jel and asked her bout it which shut her down, few days later we spoke by text and she asked why i cared, i said i was begining to like her then she said i never knew you felt like that and i thought we where just mates. Im not sure if thats true or not but iv spoken to her friends who say she has got feelings for me. So as the convo went on i said i wasnt like madly in love with her or anything but that we were more friends with benefits type thing, she then said that was completly horrible and she doesnt believe in that, but seeing as she sais she only sees me as a friend but wev never not hooked up when wer around each other im kinda confused. So its been a few days now and havnt spoken to her, kinda confused with what she wants and am just wandering what i should do, do i wait for her to contact me or do i just suck it up and call her?.
Cheers

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Dr. Jackson 43 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Man you’ve got so much to learn about woman…
Apologize for everything and just tell her you want to make it up to her somehow. Tell her you were wrong to say that and you want to make it right.

You’ve basically screwed yourself otherwise.

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1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Dr. Jackson wrote:
Man you’ve got so much to learn about woman…
Apologize for everything and just tell her you want to make it up to her somehow. Tell her you were wrong to say that and you want to make it right.

You’ve basically screwed yourself otherwise.

Cheers man just i dont want to seem to clingy by calling her and apologising for everything just like that

scarlett87 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

i wouldnt,, but im a girl lol. it sounds like shes still clinging on to the emotions with her ex, say u did beg her and even got with her, is it really gona work with him still in the picture? not only that but girls are just like guys, we dont like clingy,, you have to show her that you do really like her but your not just an option, maybe remind her hes an ex for a reason but i think if you start getting all obsessive right now then she might choose the surer option, she already has feelings for him remem, but i could be wrong even ill admit girls are very confusing. id give her time to wrok out what she wants, but make sure she knows your feelings and try keep your relationship not too heavy so your not forcing pressure on her.just remember your own value, im sure your worth more

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1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

rachxx87 wrote:
i wouldnt,, but im a girl lol. it sounds like shes still clinging on to the emotions with her ex, say u did beg her and even got with her, is it really gona work with him still in the picture? not only that but girls are just like guys, we dont like clingy,, you have to show her that you do really like her but your not just an option, maybe remind her hes an ex for a reason but i think if you start getting all obsessive right now then she might choose the surer option, she already has feelings for him remem, but i could be wrong even ill admit girls are very confusing. id give her time to wrok out what she wants, but make sure she knows your feelings and try keep your relationship not too heavy so your not forcing pressure on her.just remember your own value, im sure your worth more

:) Thanks for the reply, my god your right women are possibly the most annoying complicated theings on the planet, :L this sucks balls

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I agree, after men of course :D its true tho, things happen fr a reason so let them happen dnt frce them too.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 hours, 18 minutes after post)

it’s a trap! this is the kind of girl who always says one thing but wants another. she’s not going to make it easy for you at all. get ready for some more mind games.

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