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my friends dissaprove of the guy I like because they think he is rude…

What do I do?

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jfjd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

He honestly such a nice guy and super funny. I’ve never seen him do anything rude or mean

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alatif offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Ask them why he is rude. Also don’t mix your friends with him. If you all hang out together make sure you give both friends and boyfriend the same amount of time.
If he is rude to them, unless this is the guy you are going to marry, move on. Your friends should outlast him. If your friends are jealous AND he is rude, you’ll have to let him go. Its tough but next time you have a boyfriend keep him separate until your friends have boyfriends too.

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jfjd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

It really seems like it’s just my two friends disapprove… Not everyone feels the same way as they do. I feel like I’m getting fixed messages from people. It’s not like we are definitely going to go out. They don’t see him the way I do.. So what now, do I put my feelings aside because 2 friends (2 to 3 years younger than me) disapprove? This is high school so I honestly don’t know

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Quit listening to your friends and listen to your heart. Are you trying to make them happy or make yourself happy? Love rules…

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jfjd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

thanks, i just called one of my friends, confessed that I liked the boy she sort of disapproves. She said she understood why I liked him and was going to try to know him better.

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alatif offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

Hey, if your friend said that, she’s a good friend. See how it goes. If your friends are a couple of years beneath you is the guy in your year or your friends?

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jfjd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

He’s a sophomore so he’s in between us

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alatif offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

Btw at your age I would tread carefully. School is a small environment and you don’t want others saying bad things about you. If you like this guy and tensions are being caused tell him that you can’t go out with him until the summer hols as your parents want you to focus on your school work. The you can see him without your friends having to mix with him because your days will be long enough to see them all.

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alatif offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

OK, well you can’t see them all during break time. Maybe you could join an after school club with him? Or with your friends so that they know that you value them and are seeking to spend time with them?

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