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so me and my ex.

are talking agin..i want him back but im not sure if i can trust him..but i think this time around it would be different..i wrote a 4 page letter that i want to give him telling him sbout how i feel and everything i know that he thinks i dont know..plus i want to ask him to go away for a weekend with me and my friend and her boyriend…should i give him the letter and ask him to go with us?…

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pure_infatuation6 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

hi lol

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victorpeterso offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Greenville, SC, US | 6 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Guys have commitment issues. Personally, I’d hold onto the letter for a little while. I’ve broken up with girls for comming on to strong. There’s plenty of time to express to him how you feel. Let it come naturally, there’s no need to force it.

Ask him to go on the weekend trip, but don’t over-welm him with your feelings.

God Bless

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victorpeterso offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Greenville, SC, US | 6 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

i appologize. I just reread your question. If you broke up with him, I would give him the letter and see how he responds first. Then make your judgement on whether to take him back or not on how he reacts.

If he broke up with you. I’d hold on to the letter like I suggested above.

God Bless

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