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I need boy advice!

So there is this guy I’ve been crushing on named Scott. Scott and I are pretty good friends and get along well. We flirt a lot but we aren’t dating, but I think he might like me. Today in Spanish 1 class he said that there was a new girl and she was dorky when he knew I wasn’t totally paying attention. Then my best friend Lexi (she’s a girl) walks in the room and asked if there was a new student. Andrew said yes and they went to go see her. She wasn’t in the hallway but when him and Lexi came back Scott was saying how the new girl was super hot. I had overheard him earlier when he called the new girl dorky, except this time when he came in and knew I was paying attention he “changed his opion” even though they did not see her. Scott then talked to a few people and Lexi and I piped in. Lexi thought the new girl was in Scott’s grade and he seemed super excited… I’m not sure what to think about all of this. Any ideas? Is he just playing me or do you think he was trying to make me jealous? What are your thoughts

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GoldenArrow offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Well first of all, I think you got to go check out the girl, to see if she really is “dorky” or she is “hot”. You might see if Scott was bluffing or saying the truth.
Now, if he was saying the truth about this new girl being hot, specially with you listening, he may not like you, the way you like him.
However, is he was fooling you into believing she is hot, then he might be trying to make you jealous. That’s a good sign for you, he might like you!
What do you think, does it makes sense?
(my English sometimes gets a bit confusing, sorry)

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jfjd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

That makes total since. I go to a relatively small school, but apparently no one seems to have seen her. She might have just been looking at our school and not actually attending.

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GoldenArrow offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Wait, are you the same person who asked the question? Because you’re not anonymous now.

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PromisingMoon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

I think you should just say “Hey, I like you…want to eat lunch together” Or something of the sort. I know it takes guts, but you already trust him as your friend. Build on that trust and simply ask him out!

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

and how old did you say you all were?

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

Is this the same guy everyone thinks is rude?

If so, they have a point.

Anyone who spends their time pigeon-holing people by their looks and making personal remarks about them to others is ill-mannered, judgemental, immature and a potential bully.

Time to make your decision as to whether you’re going to go along with all this or steer clear and see it all for what it really is.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

oh.. and did I mention he likes to manipulate people and lies ? Think about it. Read what you wrote again and think about it.

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