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I don’t like this…

It is almost summer and i havent even hit my ideal weight, im almost 10lbs over what i want to be, and im about 135.. I know it might sound like i want to be super skinny, but i just want to be healthier and not have my thighs touching each other when i walk. I need some advice and motivation, I dont want to be the 160lbs girl i was last summer, i dont really like most of how my body looks like in a bathing suit and i dont want my boyfriend to see my body like this, even though he has seen me naked. it does sound a little werid but it is how i feel. I feel like i am beautiful, but i also have another side that just wants to shed the weight unhealthy like (throwing up) i dont want to go back to that stage of throwing up to be skinny then eating myself sick until i gain 45lbs

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wretched offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

work out, eat right. be healthy.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

You could lose 10 pounds in a healthy manner in a little over a month, just be good to yourself.

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1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Your thighs will touch regardless.
I know a girl whose legs are pretty much tooth picks, and her thighs touch. That’s a myth.
If it’s a number your obsessed with, work out and eat right (as in healthier) and burn more calories than you consume. Just take up something simple like walking or slow jogging, or even running. You don’t have to become a freaking gorilla meat head just to be happy with your weight. My mother changed her diet and lost a lot of weight in the period of a year by eating better and just walking.
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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Why are you so obsessed with the number?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

if you lose 2 lbs a week you’ll have shed the extra 10 lbs within a month…drink a lot of water and eat more veg and fruit and exercise

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