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my boyfriend has been in the worst mood for the past week or so.
its understandable. we’ve been moving from one apartment to another..he hates his job..and we’ve been house training our puppy, which always has a few pitfalls..
But its getting beyond what I’m willing to handle..my patience is getting a little thin.
he’s kind of been a bit of a jerk at times, verbally has taken it out on the dog a bit, who doesn’t understand, but it gets under my skin.
Just now we got in a fight over how I’ll refer to the pup as “babe” or “baby.” This past week, every time he hears me say it, I have to hear a scoff, or a negative comment. I finally just said that I could call her whatever the heck I want to call her…etc. etc. Him saying he wasn’t forcing his opinion on me..me saying having to hear it all the time was bad enough..yadda yadda.
It’s so stupid. I don’t like getting in stupid fights. It’s a waste of time. I feel bad that my patience is disappearing..but I’m not sure what to do here.
I know in a while it’ll blow over because some of his stresses will go away..but I don’t want to be making it worse because I’M getting irritated by him.
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