Feeling betrayed, lonely, and disappointed by one of my best friends.
This isn’t really a question, I just need to voice this somewhere.
My friend and his long term girlfriend broke up about two months ago, and I’d been trying to help him through it, not too long ago we confessed that we liked each other and after my residential trip to a university i met up with him in town. We kissed and walked around holding hands, he treat me lovely, and we talked about stuff that we’d do later; film nights, food we’d cook together, just stuff.
The day after I met his best friend, who’s from out of town, and we really got on (seemed like a bit of an initiation task) Half way through the day his ex messaged him, and got a bit ratty when he didnt reply asap. The next morning he messaged to say that he wanted to be friends so he could focus on getting over her.
The other night I was at a games night and they were both there, acting coupley. They hugged (probably kissed) jsut outside and i saw it.
Morning after that they announced that they’re together again.
I’m annoyed cos he promised me he wouldn’t mess me around by dumping me and getting back with her. Everyone’s advising him to leave her and get over it, shes messed him around and hurt him a lot.
I hate broken promises, I hate that I gave him my heart naively, thinking they were over. (he told her that they were over while we were together and then changed his mind.)
The guy i was with before this guy treat me like ****, and i thought that i’d found someone who was different. :/
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