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Just got dumped.

For real this time. He really thinks he’s leaving for New York after he graduates. So even if it’s not set in stone, he can just leave me…
But now, what do I do? I don’t feel anything right now…not anything at all…

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rickpmerce offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Find someone else. I’ll bet that you can be on a date with someone else by tomorrow if you put a little effort into it.

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Tate offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

you might not feel anything cause your still…thinking about you this break up. your still shocked or somethings. i dont know how to explain it, but your still thinking of this thats why you feel nothing. its happened to me before.

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windmills, offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

I think it would be best for you to focus on your goals and make ever effort humanly possible to attain them. Your world hasn’t come to an end because of this. There will be many guys whom you’ll meet, and it’s conceivable that many more will come and go - just as this one. Unfortunately, that is how life usually works. But as human beings, we’re endowed with the amazing ability to overcome almost any hardship life has to offer.

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justice82n offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

I agree with Mills 100%

Address your own goals, as he has his. You will find somebody who will stay loyal to you to the bitter end, you just have to stay open to it.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 4 minutes after post)

keep yourself occupied with other things.

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shedoesntknow offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 hours, 19 minutes after post)

kinda hard to when he’s texting me.
he said he thinks he’s at the point in his life where he’s scared. no **** though, he’s only 18. but that’s a better excuse than the new york crap…

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windmills, offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 35 minutes after post)

From what I understand, he doesn’t have any intention of getting into a serious relationship at this stage in his life.

Wasn’t this the guy that wanted to get back together with his ex after he had asked you to be his girlfriend?

I think you’re just causing yourself a lot of unneeded trouble by continuing to associate with this guy. You need to find someone who is ready to take on the responsibilities that come with a serious relationship and who won’t abandon you for an ex.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

eh. if a relationship ends because someone’s scared, i think then it’s probably not something that should have started in the first place. he doesn’t really sound like the kind of guy who can give you the relationship you want anyhow.

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