Feel help: I’ve had a pretty messed up week.

whywhwywhwy

I’ve had a pretty messed up week.

I really don’t understand why I’m having this bad luck. I spent a $1000 on hardware, and due to some reason or the other things have gotten really messed up.

Also I had two big fights with my mum. I also achieved nothing at work, and am even further behind schedule.

I feel like the last year and a half has been really messed up. My luck doesn’t seem to be improving. I’m really struggling.

I don’t need anyone to tell to try harder, or say cliche things like “things will improve” , or “lives full of ups and downs”….

It feels like everything is just going down. I’m really struggling, and it seems that there is no help coming my way. It seems like things can only get worse.

Everyday I feel like jumping of the balcony. I feel like picking fights with people rather than defusing the situation. Even I can see that my state of mind is not good.

I don’t understand what is going on here. I feel like nobody understands me. I feel that people love to think they now whats going on, or what I’m going through, but they don’t.

I feel very angry. I don’t want to take to anyone (if you’re thinking about suggesting a shrink). I have no money. All my friends seem to have disappeared too. Its like my enemies are in paradise, while I’m struggling.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

All you can do is to try to keep moving forward and try to not dwell on the past. I know it’s easier said than done, but that’s all you can do. Don’t quit and try to be strong, things do get better sometimes.

whywhwywhwy #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

whywhwywhwy wrote:
I don’t need anyone to tell to try harder, or say cliche things like “things will improve” , or “lives full of ups and downs”….

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Sorry if you thought what I said was a cliche, I was just trying to help.

whitney19 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

It sounds like you are having a rough time. It’s true, I don’t know what is going on with you, but I do know what it’s like to feel all the things you have said. What helps me the most is just making a drastic change in my life. You don’t have to have money to make a change.

If you do what you always did then you will get what you always got.. Is a true statement.

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Help me with: I feel like I try so hard and still end up no where!

beccafunn 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

Get a puppy.

Help me with: Summer is here.

whywhwywhwy #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

Imfallinganyways wrote:
It sounds like you are having a rough time. It’s true, I don’t know what is going on with you, but I do know what it’s like to feel all the things you have said. What helps me the most is just making a drastic change in my life. You don’t have to have money to make a change.

If you do what you always did then you will get what you always got.. Is a true statement.

Dude, I have n idea what to do man. No money, no job, no friends. I’m struggling, and I can’t seem to help my folks. Nothing makes sense to me. I have no idea what the logical thing to do is since nothing makes sense.

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whywhwywhwy #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

beccafunn wrote:
Get a puppy.

No money or time or space for the puppy.

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beccafunn 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

You have any family?

Help me with: Summer is here.

whywhwywhwy #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

Yes.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

Cast a magic spell.

beccafunn 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

Can you spend time with them?

Help me with: Summer is here.

whywhwywhwy #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (48 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Cast a magic spell.

Dude. wtf man. Really. I’m having a hard time, and you’re being artarded ? Why man? :|

beccafunn wrote:
Can you spend time with them?

I moved back into my parents house. I see my folks all the time. But its really hard for me and them.

I don’t understand my struggle. It doesn’t make sense. Things should flow really easily for me, but things are just falling apart at random. Its like, if I try to do something, the opposite happens. If I try harder, it gets worse. If I don’t try, nothing happens anyway. Its like I’m stuck in some kind of limbo with an electric fence around it that zaps me when I try to escape.

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BigWilly! 53 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Kinda sounds like stress, maybe low level but cumulative, might be causing you to exhibit displacement behavior. Maybe you need to sit down and have a really long and thorough look at what’s been happening in your life and how it’s affecting you. It might help you find ways to alleviate some of what’s causing your problems. Maybe a big break from everything, if you can afford it.
Yup, kinda vague, but the human psyche can be rather complex and small things might have a large effect. It also sounds to me as if you’re kinda getting into a feedback loop wherein every problem gets focused on/magnified.. which leads to greater problems and other, smaller ones, becoming more perceptually severe.

Help me with: Just had to post this.

Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Cast a magic spell.

Sorry man.

Mrs. Hasta Pianoman 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Sorry, but I gotta give you a cliché: Life goes on!

It really does, you know. If you get through this, it will keep on going forward and stuff will change. Change is constant!

Never forget: http://roflrazzi.files.wordpress.com/…

Help me with: I’m a Mormon and I’m happy to answer questions!

mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 14 minutes after post)

whywhwywhwy wrote:
It feels like everything is just going down. I’m really struggling, and it seems that there is no help coming my way. It seems like things can only get worse.

Don’t worry, be happy.

Help me with: Socialness

BigWilly! 53 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Cast a magic spell.

Oh well.. couldn’t resist, though I fought the good fight till the very end: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cvfE-C… My self loathing is now complete.

Help me with: Just had to post this.

buminahooha #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 45 minutes after post)

sometimes you gota go out and search for the difference but what happens if you are both attached to meaningfullest objectives… how want mere to be

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