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Firstly, I have a bad English i’m sorry for that.

I’m 15 and my mum is so oppressive.
she is interfering with my everything my clothes,my class, my school-uniform etc.I want to get rid of she. what can i do please help me :(

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

Your mom is being a mom and you are being a teenager. Thats all normal behavior and remember one day you will be free to do all you want to do and wear what you want to wear. In the meantime, you have to respect her wishes regardless of whether you think she is being oppressive or not.

You could also try talking to her calmly without being rebellious, may be she will try and change- but don’t count on it. Best wishes.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

A mother’s duty is to love, care for, take interest in and supervise her children.

What teenagers see as oppression is so often simply that duty being exercised… and often under difficult circumstances.

When you have children of your own, you will understand.

Meanwhile, if you feel you would like to take more responsibility, then you could suggest to your mother that you could take on the laundry and mending of all your things yourself as a starting point? I’m sure she would be happy to involve you in that if you put it to her that you’re growing up now and recognise that you need to be helpful, to ease her workload and to be more responsible for your own things?

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