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my friend and I are feuding.

we had been planning for her to come help me shop for my prom dress on a certain day. we’d planned it for two weeks. then at the last minute she not only decided to go to Sonic (I tagged along because I didn’t want to be a party pooper) but she acted like she absolutely didn’t care that I was leaving to get my dress. she blew me off. I was angry at her and I cried for a good hour. She texted me the next night saying she knew i was upset and we would talk the next day. three days passed without her uttering a word to me. or answering my texts. or answering my phone call. I don’t know what to do now. My friends are angry with her and one of my friends tried talking to her but she said I was trying to guilt her into feeling sorry for me. The only things I said in my texts were pleas for her to call me. that was it. I didn’t guilt her. I’m so confused and angry and I have no idea what to do. This came on so suddenly. last week we were as close as we always are. we are actually really close. but it doesn’t feel like it right now.

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mintra offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

When you are at school or college, freindships become a bit intense, it is not unusual for someone in a group to react against it especially as things are about to change anyway.

Give her space, and just be pleasant when she comes back to you.

It is not necessarily you she is reacting against.

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