Love help: What are signs that your relationship is over, when none of you have said its actually over? - Help.com

Well why not just ask. Do you mean in the sense that someone has lost interest or you had a ight and Oi don’t know if that was the end?

if you’ve been in a relationship for 3.5 years, you two should be able to communicate about serious things like this. I’d ask him.

The only way your relationship is over is if your boyfriend refuses to be open and talk about what’s going on. You need to tell him everything you are feeling and get everything out in the open.

If he resists, persist. I don’t see how you two can go on without talking things like this through- otherwise your relationship will become an unhappy one.

I think it’s probably time to let go. Have a talk with him first, of course — for all you know, this could be an easily solved problem — but brace yourself for the worst.

when you are no longer honest with one another. when you cannot trust or communicate, there is no relationship left to hold onto.

First you must ask yourself “am I or was I in a relationship in the first place?”

Rosy21 wrote:
I was, i used to be

Then it’s over, find a better boyfriend.

Holding grudges is bad for your health, just wash the dork under the carpet, and get on with your life.
Life is far too short not to be in love.