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Well why not just ask. Do you mean in the sense that someone has lost interest or you had a ight and Oi don’t know if that was the end?
As in, im in a relationship for 3.5 years, and he starts ignoring me, never phones or calls, and doesnt answer the phone either.
What other signs are there ?
and yes i dont know if my relationship is over or not because of this, so dont know how to feel, if i should be sad because its over or if i should feel fine because were still togetehr and maybe hes just busy
if you’ve been in a relationship for 3.5 years, you two should be able to communicate about serious things like this. I’d ask him.
Ive tried asking he avoids it.
The only way your relationship is over is if your boyfriend refuses to be open and talk about what’s going on. You need to tell him everything you are feeling and get everything out in the open.
If he resists, persist. I don’t see how you two can go on without talking things like this through- otherwise your relationship will become an unhappy one.
its been happy since november last year, and ive tried everything, i think i need to let go now
Hes been avoiding your calls since November?
If that is true, break up with him!!!! He’s too scared to do it himself.
I think it’s probably time to let go. Have a talk with him first, of course — for all you know, this could be an easily solved problem — but brace yourself for the worst.
ya basically since november things havent been the same.
he wont talk
If he wont communicate with you, and going from your last post, hes sounds like hes being a total ***. I mean you’ve been together for 3.5 years! And he wont talk to you! Sounds like an immature *** to me.
I’d say let go of this relationship. A relationship should be made of mutual love, communication, trust and fun times. It should energize you, not make you angry, sad and lonely.
I mean how old is this guy?
when you are no longer honest with one another. when you cannot trust or communicate, there is no relationship left to hold onto.
hes 23, what do you think ??
I think hes too scared to break up with you, so instead hes ignoring you.
Why are you trying to hang onto this non-existent relationship?
First you must ask yourself “am I or was I in a relationship in the first place?”
I was, i used to be
I was, i used to be
Then it’s over, find a better boyfriend.
Holding grudges is bad for your health, just wash the dork under the carpet, and get on with your life.
Life is far too short not to be in love.
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