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I need help getting help after taking the first step.

When you let something control your life, life becomes less controlled by you yourself. Knowing this must stop. Although the. Emphamis “Just one more time” “This is the last time” “Tomorrow”……..Well tomorrow never comes its today an tomorrow is ALWAYS tomorrow. Then its to the point your body is addicted also. So you make more excuses, reasons, and NOTHING. NOTHING is what you accomplish having.

I lost everything material. Most important is hurting people around you for doing thisand not stopping. I always think they don’t understand me. Lost my marriage. Not being the mother I was or even a mother.
I am blessed with still having contact, seeing them and and still having “CONCEPT”.

Finally After 2 1/2 years I decide to go to rehab. I am also blessed with insurance. After calling rehabs that are professional in the type of help I need, I find out I need $6000.00 to cover what my insurance will not. I know for a fact I need this to fully recover. This treatment will also educate me in life skills, social skills, exercise, and cooping skills to deal with life.

So please help me with this $6000.00

Loves,Hugs, & Kissess
From Jen
& my children

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

You should search for sliding-scale or need-based payment assistance. This is the type of thing that charities give willingly to (if you mean something like drug rehab), but not to individuals, it would be paid for at the place. And you’d have to find a place that does provide financial assistance. They do exist, I’ve seen it.

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J2Jays offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Yes I don’t need the money in my hands to the treatment center. Thank you so much for your help. It is difficult for me ask for help let alone telling people I have a problem. I will check into those.

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