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I need help flirting with a girl.

I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. I beleive I’m in good shape. I’m a little overweight but thinned out and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic but everyone says she is very sweet (which i can very much believe). But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that I like so
I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her but this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now! When my one friend dropped the bomb a few weeks ago one of her friends. got pissed at me too so I need to make her friend beleive I’m very sweet too. I don’t know if the girl I like ma may possibly like me or not but she has caught me trying to stare at her beautiful face and looks bad but I don’t know if it’s a “screw off” or “I’m into you too look.”

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Anonymous edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. Although I am kind of chubby and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic everyone says she is very sweet (which and can believe) and will probably let me down easy the first couple times I ask. But the main question is, how do I approach her with this?

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "middle school, Popularity, beautiful, approach, question, flirting, popular, waiting, friends, middle" 1 year, 1 month ago.

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I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. Although I am kind of chubby and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic everyone says she is very sweet (which and can believe) and will probably let me down easy the first couple times I ask. But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that I like so I really need help!

Anonymous edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. Although I am kind of chubby and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic everyone says she is very sweet (which and can believe) and will probably let me down easy the first couple times I ask. But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that
I like so I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her out this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 49 minutes after post)

I was always hopless at the flirting game. There are signals though that you can pick up on and give out. Google flirting to find out more. That is what I did!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 hours, 49 minutes after post)

your very down on your self … you said ’she will probably let me down easy the first few times’ how do you know she wouldn’t love to date you? … face book is a good start? or get her number and text/phone …. or just ask her out when shes alone and see what she says? flirting = basically making a girl feel good about herself and laugh …

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I know that you’ll here this from everyone, but if you aren’t confident then you’re doomed before you start. Unfortunately, you are at a bit a disadvantage if your friends already dropped the ball on you, as you’ve said.

Sounds cliche, but the most important thing is to be casual and carefree. If you spend all your time worrying about the cons, you’ll never experience the pros. Don’t think about it, just go for it. It may be scary as hell, as it is for everyone, but you’ll thank yourself later, if only for peace of mind that you worked up the nerve. Good luck!

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Anonymous edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. Although I am kind of chubby and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic everyone says she is very sweet (which i can very much believe) and will probably let me down easy the first couple times I ask. But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that
I like so I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her out this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now!

Anonymous edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. I beleive I’m in very ggod shape. I’m a little overweight but thinned out and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic but everyone says she is very sweet (which i can very much believe). But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that
I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her out this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now! When my one friend dropped the bomb a few weeks ago one of her friends got pissed at me too so I need to make her friend beleive I’m very sweet too.

Anonymous edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. I beleive I’m in good shape. I’m a little overweight but thinned out and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic but everyone says she is very sweet (which i can very much believe). But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that I like so
I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her but this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now! When my one friend dropped the bomb a few weeks ago one of her friends. got pissed at me too so I need to make her friend beleive I’m very sweet too. I don’t know if she may possibly like me or not but she has caught me trying to stare at her beautiful face and looks bad but I don’t know if it’s a “screw off” or “I’m into you too lok.”

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1 year, 1 month ago (18 hours after post)

Lornab i didn’t really realize how bad this post was on myself when I typed it. I’m a very confident person in sports and other things but not with dating or flirting!

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I need help flirting with a girl. I don’t know how to approach her! She has more popularity than me around the school but I also play a few sports which may give me a extra boost. I beleive I’m in good shape. I’m a little overweight but thinned out and she’s in perfect shape with a beautiful face. She is a year older than me too and I’m in Middle School. I was thinking of waiting a few years but I can’t. She doesn’t know me too well but she knows I like her because of my friends (don’t you just love when you’re friends are assholes?) Although she is more popular than me and more althletic but everyone says she is very sweet (which i can very much believe). But the main question is, how do I approach her with this? I’m also very shy around girls that I like so
I really need help! This is very urgent because if I want a chance to ask her but this year I’m limited on time and won’t have a chance to at all next year. It’s this year or two years from now! When my one friend dropped the bomb a few weeks ago one of her friends. got pissed at me too so I need to make her friend beleive I’m very sweet too. I don’t know if she may possibly like me or not but she has caught me trying to stare at her beautiful face and looks bad but I don’t know if it’s a “screw off” or “I’m into you too look.”

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