Advice About a Girl
My friends and I took a trip across the country. We hadn’t planned on having much fun, as this was more of a work related trip. Nearly everyone we met was very nice, but there was someone there who caught my eye.
This girl and her friends were to be working on the same project as my friends and I. I later came to find out that she was interested in me, but it was not until later that I started to pay attention to her. I must say that I had a bit of an idea, and as a result played the “i don’t give a ****” card very well. After work was finished on the last two evenings, all of the people working on the project hung out. We were all held up in the same place and we all took a liking to one another, so it just made sense. “x”, we’ll call her, and I ended up flirting a bit on the last night (nothing more than talking and goofing around). Since it was the last night we’d all be together, everyone exchanged contact information before going our separate ways.
I had received a text from “x” the next morning, and agreed to meet her before I went back to the east coast. She was very upset as she informed me that she was currently in a relationship, and felt awful about “leading me on”, but that she couldn’t help but want to get to know me more. I told her that I felt the same way about her, but not to worry about it. We texted each other for the rest of the day. After a few days with no contact, we spoke for a few hours on the phone. She told me that she had taken a break from her boyfriend and that she couldn’t stop thinking about me, etc. I told her the same. Everything was getting better. I received a text message a few days later stating that we were not right for one another. I did my best to let her know how I felt, but it was to no avail. We have not spoken in several weeks.
I left out a few things, as this is already a very long post, and my apologies for that. I know i probably sound like a chump here, but I can’t help but feel like we met for a reason. I am a very serious person whom has only had a few (long term) relationships. I don’t feel this way often, if ever, and I’m wondering if anyone can help me figure out what to do. Thanks for reading this.
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Advice About a Girl
My friends and I took a trip across the country. We hadn’t planned on having much fun, as this was more of a work related trip. Nearly everyone we met was very nice, but there was someone there whom caught my eye.
This girl and her friends were to be working on the same project as my friends and I. I later came to find out that she was interested in me, but it was not until later that I started to pay attention to her. I must say that I had a bit of an idea, and as a result played the “i don’t give a ****” card very well. After work was finished on the last two evenings, all of the people working on the project hung out. We were all held up in the same place and we all took a liking to one another, so it just made sense. “x”, we’ll call her, and I ended up flirting a bit on the last night (nothing more than talking and goofing around). Since it was the last night we’d all be together, everyone exchanged contact information before going our separate ways.
I had received a text from “x” the next morning, and agreed to meet her before I went back to the east coast. She was very upset as she informed me that she was currently in a relationship, and felt awful about “leading me on”, but that she couldn’t help but want to get to know me more. I told her that I felt the same way about her, but not to worry about it. We texted each other for the rest of the day. After a few days with no contact, we spoke for a few hours on the phone. She told me that she had taken a break from her boyfriend and that she couldn’t stop thinking about me, etc. I told her the same. Everything was getting better. I received a text message a few days later stating that we were not right for one another. I did my best to let her know how I felt, but it was to no avail. We have not spoken in several weeks.
I left out a few things, as this is already a very long post, and my apologies for that. I know i probably sound like a chump here, but I can’t help but feel like we met for a reason. I am a very serious person whom has only had a few (long term) relationships. I don’t feel this way often, if ever, and I’m wondering if anyone can help me figure out what to do. Thanks for reading this.
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