I need some advice.
I have important exams coming up in a few weeks time and have to practice by working on my communication (its a healthcare degree). We get put into difficult communication scenarios and have to deal with it effectively.
As part of the placements, we get moved around a lot. Theres this guy who is my friend. My only friend here. I relied on him to practice with. There’s another girl who’s asked him to practice with her n he said yes. That was fine, it wasn’t affecting us practising together. But for the past few days weneva i asked about practising he wud say he was busy..
Anyway he asked me if i was pissed off. N rather than being rational i got a bit emotional n almost cried.
I am defos not an emotional person but i hate confrontation. We ended up having a conversation that was more like an argument.
Now we’re not speaking. It’s awkward but now i have no one to practise with. More than that i keep thinking that he ditched me pretty quick n we’ve been frds for a while.
He says i never gave him enough notice to practice, and that sum1 else has usually asked him bythen. He basically made out that i was needy when i wudnt have voiced that i needed help had he not asked. Also the ‘help’ wud hav been mutual.
What i want to know is, am i in the wrong? Whenever we argue it’s always me that feels the need to make up.
Whenever i asked he never said it was due to short notice, i dunno what to think.
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