hope help: You must surrender all hope to avoid being a victim. - Help.com

woooow you must be hopless ive been picked on for years and ive finaly found the only way to ever get away and its not being compleatly with no hope its being confident of myself

This is one of the silliest things I’ve ever heard. You have made yourself into the ultimate victim by believing this. You have given up happiness, one of the only real reasons to live, in order to make sure that you are never a victim because being a victim makes you unhappy? Well you know what else generally makes people unhappy, giving up all hope and happiness.

verge has a point really all of what your proposing just puts you in a limbo really you will never really be happy if you follow that idea trust me i know well ive been picked on for as long as i remember and i know now the only true fix is to be confident in yourself only then can you truly be happy

No.

There are much less ridiculous ways to stop being a victim.
In fact sounds like you’re making yourself a victim. By telling yourself you’re a victim of some cruel impossible world and that that’s the only way to live.

ok both of you two quit it seriously are you not thinking about how this guy feels i know from experience that you talking this way isnt going to help him eather be nice or just leave him alone at least im trying to say it nicly

But is pessimism really so enjoyable? I like to try to hover between pessimism and optimism. Its a bit spontaneous but i dont want to be full of dreadful breath. Ive had enough of letting things drag me down.

The world is not a cruel and horrible place and the only way you are going to stop feeling like a victim is by allowing yourself to realise that.
Yes there is pain in the world and that is difficult to deal with. But it’s not all bad. And cutting yourself off rather than saving you from pain is sentencing yourself to a life time of it.