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ugh!

So lately I was with my friend and we went to IHOP. So for some reason she asked me to go to the bathroom to check her contacts but I said no because I didn’t want to go into the disgusting bathroom and then have to eat my food. So she tells me that she would do it for me… but the thing is I wouldn’t want her to. And she uses that sentence A LOT! Almost every other day. Anyways I keep saying no until she gets up and says “Thanks a lot!” Really loud and we are in front of her sisters babysitter, (who I just met) her sister, and the full house at IHOP. The thing is she expects me to forgive her for all the crap she pulls off like talking behind my back, leaving me with no ride at a restaurant and now this (and many more things) and yet she can be pissed off at me because I don’t want to go into the bathroom with her. *by the way last time I did go into the bathroom with her… She locked me in the stall and then turned the lights off.* She also doesn’t like her sister to talk to me. I was talking to her sister and laughing and then she looks up from her phone and (again) yells at her sister for “trying to always steal her friends away.” Many more reasons I can talk about but that would become a novel. So I need advice. I’m trying to steer away from her… And she keeps asking “do you hate me” I kinda do though… because she is rude, embarrassing, possessive, and mean. So I don’t know how to make her a friend and not keep her as a best friend. Any advice?

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Dr. Jackson offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Well it doesn’t sound like she’s gonna take anything lightly, so I’d just rip the bandaid off while you can. If she’s like this now, it’s not likely she’s gonna change unless she realizes what she’s doing and wants to change. People only change if they want to.

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Abbierose15 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Just slowly stop hanging out with her. Make it look more like you are just drifting apart rather than having a big falling out. But if you really just get sick of what she is doing confront her, and then find new friends. She doesnt even seem like a person you would want to stay friends with, so think about that and then decide what is the best course of action for you

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