life help: I hate myself and what ive become. - Help.com

we all have problems some are worse than others but listen! you got to start somewhere.. deep inside you lies love and compassion for something. Look into a new born’s face and tell me what you see! that new born resides in you heart and must wake up to see the beauty of life. For now you need to embrace yourself and test different methods to accomplish what you like doing. Do not give up that easily because I am sure your not retarded. If you were, you cannot make sense and spell your heart out to seek help!

what is the most interesting subject you think about!
what do you like to do most!
What sort of a job you always wanted to do but you do’nt have the means to do it!

before anyone can help you, you need to help yourself
have some faith and work on some self confidence.
Ask yourself! why are you on this site.. there is something you’re looking for and deep down inside you know what it is. Possibly you need someone to give you a push or motive to keep going. Then I would ask why you did not kill yourself! obviously your seeking something or else you would not have existed by now. Then what is it that you seek!

if you look hard enough and long enough, eventually you’ll see a fly in your pint.

try and look for the good, rather than the bad. Life is all about perception. I fell and busted myself a few days ago, bad enough that i couldnt bend my knees, still cant kneel down and the pain kept me awake at night. My opinion? I got a good story out of it and maybe a cool scar or 2. Im 24 btw, so defo old enough to “know better” :D

homeless would suck. Never been there myself, cant comment on that.
Talentless i would disagree with, and jobless does suck big salty ones.

I know my story is tiny in comparison to your situation, but i was merely using it as an example as to how an outlook on life can change things.

no one on this earth has zero talent. but talent does need to be nutured in order to grow. start by doing things you enjoy, and work from there.

i was homeless once
i was a drug addict
i was worthless
I hanged around the wrong crowd. I was young so I got hooked up on cocaine. I started dealing with it so I can support my addiction. Eventually I lost my car, apartment, and everything else so I ended up living in the streets.
My only asset is that I am a dreamer. So I managed to snap out of this terrible dream and come back to reality.
Now i have 2 masters and i own 2 companies
Believe me this is the sweet part of my life. I have terrible stories to tell but then I tend to turn my head to see the light and do my best to avoid the dark.

well im glad you found this site. It helped turn my life around when i felt like i couldnt go on anymore.

have you thought about voluntary work? It looks great on a CV, and can give you useful skills to boot.

Not really, I was not so smart because when I decided to go to college I ended up with 6 credits for the whole year with D and F grades. That is a total failure. Then I took time off to think about myself, what is it that I need to do, and what sort of future would I plan without proper education and experience. At the end of the day I will not accept handouts from people or rely on family to pay for my living. Therefore, I had to rethink of my strategies and one of them was to work hard and support myself and put money aside for my education. I applied at pizza hut and got the job and I also worked at a local deli shop washing dishes. Those type of jobs do not require us to be smart! I had enough money from both jobs to live on my own and save as well. You can do the same if you want or you can feel sorry for yourself for the next many years to come! Now its up to you..

You do not need a bank account!
You can cash any paycheck. After you get some cash you can rent a room in a house (shared rental). Step by step and you will be on your own. Have some faith in yourself…

this is an option but if you get a job at pizza hut as a dish washer you can ask them not to deposit your check directly into your bank account furthermore you must search for options rather than being always negative about your status

They don’t like it, but you can request it from most places. Also, contact Citizens Advice, they should be able to help you with the pay problem at the very least, and if not, be able to point you in the right direction. Other options are Shortlist/stylist magazine, or the big issue. I know they arn’t brilliant, but they will generate some cash for you.

i think this every single day but you know how i get through it? by telling myself its a load of **** because you can change your life tomorrow if you wanted to and even the fact that you’re alive and you’re a decent person is an achievement in itself i have often said the same thing about my life, i’m in my 20s i’ve never had a job, no real friends, i don’t drive even though i’ve always wanted to, i got fired from working in a charity shop 3 months ago (you don’t get much lower than that lol), and i got kicked out of a college course that i put my heart and soul into doing and because i got kicked out halfway thru the course i can never go back and do another course ever and theres loads lol. opportunities will arise for you, you just need to think about your passions, your true aspirations and think how you can go about making them into a reality.