my gf thinks her dad is having sex with mexican hookers, and is mad at me for not being sensitive to her frustration.
We are both academics, and have an understanding of sex work. We know far too well that it isn’t just some grimy sex trade, and that practice has cleaned up and sanitation is a regular practice in the sex trade. My gf is nonetheless disgusted because she “found lube in his swim trunks”. I told her not to jump to conclusions and assume he had sex with a mexican prostitute, and that maybe he had left it in his trunks prior to going to mexico, or maybe he has even been given it in mexico and never chose to use it!
She is now mad at me, and says that I am not sensitive to her thoughts and emotions, when in reality, I have a complete understanding. I just don’t feel her immediate reactions are warranted and she is being slightly ignorant considering how much she knows about sex work, and how she knows her dad wouldn’t have sex with someone without taking the proper precautions.
what are your thoughts on this?
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