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What should I do to act like myself around a hot guy?

If I think someone is hot, I tend to freeze up and become shy and nervous. My mind also goes a little blank and I’m not able to think of anything interesting to talk about.

I’m usually fun and social normally…unless I’m attracted to someone T_T…

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phoenix.j.ryde offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

same way you should with other people, just be yourself. you need that person to fall for you for who you are and not your act. but that’s just me.

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1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

I understand but I can be myself…that’s the problem haha….

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phoenix.j.ryde offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I understand but I can be myself…that’s the problem haha….

you mean you can’t :p

why not? what do you think makes you feel unccomfortable?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

Pretend that they look like someone who you think is really funny looking :)

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1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

Maybe I worry about what they think about me? I get nervous easily

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

Try to stick to the idea that they’ll like the funny you, even if you come off as odd, better than the shy you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

You need to make yourself believe that you dont like him.

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defensive_crustacean offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

i know the feeling heh. i can’t offer any help but to say it’s the same for guys.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour after post)

I guess I’ll have to work on this…any pointers?

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