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I need some positive advice.

My BF is about to be kicked out of home because due to some issues his pay has been cut of for 8 weeks, once he gets his pay back he can move back in but for that eight weeks he’s got to stay somewhere else, most of his old friends he’s cut contact with for they all want him to start drugs again and he doesn’t want anything to do with them anymore. his parents are a bit touchy, his moms alright but has no room, and he can only get along with his dad for short periods of time, i have to room and would be happy to have him but my parents own the house i live in and have made it clear in the past they hate him and will not let him stay at my house. So unless i hide him under my bed for 8 weeks i am clueless at what to do.

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thereisnogod offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Hide him. To be frank, he only needs a place to sleep. The rest of the time he can be outside somewhere right? Starbucks, library, wherever.

When its lights out time he can come by. Who will see him? Then you two can enjoy!

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LittleBean offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 34 minutes after post)

I think you should try sitting down with your parents and explaining the situation first; that he has no interest in getting back into drugs and is wary of being around those people again; drum in the fact that he has absolutley nowhere to go and also try to get them to think about how YOU will be affected if he is forced to move back with his friends and takes up drugs again; you are their priority and if you take it from that aspect then it might help sway them. I dont think you should sneak him in; if they find out then you’ll only jeprodise your relationship with them and **** will hit the fan; then you might both end up homeless. If it’s really not an option then it’s only for a short period of time, his mom has to have a couch he can crash on?

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