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How do i be normal?

I’m no good with people, i don’t know what to say. I want friends, but i don’t know why, why can’t i just be happy being alone? A girl said she liked my shirt at the shops, does that mean anything or am i just reading too much into it? I hate this, i’m supposed to be doing school work, but i’m too busy worrying about my pathetic existence. She used to like my rambling, and my hugs… I’m no good, no one deserves to have to put up with me as a friend, what a horrible thing to ask of someone. What would i even do with a friend? Just complain and stuff, same as i do here, who would want to deal with that? I want to give up.

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irregularone offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

you could admit to her you have a problem with seeing the darker side of thing too much, and would hate to darken her day.

You could just test the waters and ask her out on a date.

You could get some hobbies or start playing some sport to higher your self esteem. but practice hard.

MOST OF ALL DO YOUR ASSIGNMENT . NOW. get off help.com/

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1 year, 1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

Normal = Relative

It’s all about perspective.

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Sparrowhawk offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

For me, “normal” does not exist =) We’re all far too different to fit some invented, enforced mould.

Don’t stress! Do your work! I bet you’re great =) Many people worry about this very thing, including myself from time to time. If you really like the girl you speak of, why not try and start up a friendship or make plans to take her out somewhere?

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scarlett87 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

people will like you if you learn to like yourself, i know this sounds daft but if u really wanna change add this, every morning, look in the mirror and say one positive thing about yourself, anything, im good at physics, i have nice hair anything. Then at bedtime i want you to force a big smile laugh, even if your feelfing rough, i promise if you do this it can help. Also as above, joining clubs, sports or any is a great way of meeting ppl there are soo many dif groups.out there. Kp up the school work, i know its hard to beliave but once u leave school and have the opportunity to express yourself in work and as an adult, youll c how this is a little part of life, its just practice kp trying

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