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What would you think of a situation where a girl…

said that sometimes she had lied to herself, saying, that her and a male friend are just
friends. And that he’s like a brother to her. But then when he
moves on, she feels hurt, as if he owed her something?

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

He owes her nothing. Its her own silly fault.
She will learn from it and will survive :)

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1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

moonlightsupper wrote:
He owes her nothing. Its her own silly fault.
She will learn from it and will survive :)

what do you mean it’s he fault and that she will learn from it? in what way?

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

“She lied to herself”- thats her fault
She will learn to be more real with her true feelings and express them honestly rather than let people she is interested in slip by.

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classicrock1818 offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

He owes it to her to be her friend, but if he wants to be in a relationship with someone else and she gets angry, she is being selfish and immature.

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windmills, offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I would think that the girl withheld her true feelings for this guy because she secretly wanted to be more than just friends - only she refrained from revealing those feelings to him for fear of what it might do to their friendship.

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