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Hi I used to be funny, friendly and smart.

Until I asked myself how come I’m being funny, how come I talk to people like this? After asking me that I became self conscious of how I think and talk and changed to the opposite. When I’m not self conscious I can act like before. How can Recover my personality? How can I stop being self conscious?

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Dfeeds offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

Stop worrying about what other’s think. You’re asking yourself those questions from an outsider’s perspective when it really varies too greatly. The best way to be outgoing and friendly is to be “real” and yourself. Don’t question yourself, you are who you are. Just act like it, and go with it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Did you find reasons you didn’t like after asking those questions?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

dude i really hope you reply,

i saw your posts on yahoo answers, and other websites, and ive been trying to get in touch with you, we have to talk man..
cause this is EXACTLY what happened to me, i was also fourteen, and im seventeen now, going through the exact same thing.
for me, it clicked when i saw the movie ‘the secret’ and i thought, ‘what thoughts do i have that make me funny, charismatic, interesting, charming..’ i bombed life after that, and 10th grade i became a loser.
then 11th grade i suddenly forgot everything, i actually came back! so this is what i realized: just BE. and im not saying be ‘yourself’ or anything cause that also implies that you have to be ’someone’ or try to be someone.
literally, JUST BE! stop trying completely, because PEOPLE LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.!!!

please reply man, i have to talk to you!!!!!

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