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What do you think he means?
Okay, I have been friends with this guy. And he is quiet older than me, but he’s still single.
I always just looked at him as a friend, but he did a few things last time and I just want to know what you guys think:
I was at an engagement, all dressed up, and he just happens to be there with his cousin and brother (I know all of them, and Im friends with them all) so I decided to go say “hi”. I went and shook his brother’s hand, then his cousin and then it came to him. I shook his hand, but he wouldnt let go, instead he pulled me up closer to him. I acted as it was a joke and then just laughed. He then said “oh, Im sorry, I didn’t realise you were wearing heels” - he said that because I nearly tripped.
He then came in and kissed me on both cheeks, you know, as a way of saying hello. He then asked me about coming every friday to an activity thing, and I said yes, Im coming etc.
Next day, I see him again (church) and we sit next to each other. After that, he said “hi” to me kissing me on both cheeks and then slowly, went in for a hug. I hugged him and we pulled back and he said “see you friday nights”, I go “yeah sure”, he goes “yes, you rock!”.
Okay, Im not the type of person who knows how to interpret these things, so what do you guys think? He is a nice, sweet guy and Im not sure if its a one off thing with me or does he treat everyone like this? Interested or not?
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