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I got into an argument with a girl I like.

Well, first off I have panic attacks. I messaged her, and she told me she was mad at her friends. I said things will get better for both of us (my attacks, her friend problems). She told me I have to stop thinking about my attacks and therapy won’t help unless I learn how to control my mind. She told me to do other activities like go to the gym (which she also doesn’t do). I exercise and do other things. I know I think about the attacks more than I should, but that’s the whole problem. That’s why I have them. So I eventually said, “You know what, I’m sorry you had a fight with your friends, but don’t take it out on me.” And I then signed off. I think I’m right and should be annoyed at her. I feel she was just saying what she was because she was annoyed at her friends. What’s your opinion?

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1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

well, you are probably right. I mean you do make her sound like a bizzitch, but then again, when people are angry they aren’t thinking very clearly or acting with compassion.

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1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

I am angry at her, I admit. Do you have any advice on what I should do? Maybe she’s just in a bad mood and things will cool down.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Panic attacks are hard for yourself as well as those around you. Have you gotten help and therapy? There are great pills these days that can really help. Some people are afraid of pills, but I can tell you that there is also some great therapy out there to help you out.
I’ve had them before and I got a lot of comfort from understanding how they work and that they WILL end.

As far as girl problems, sometimes girls want to complain without necessarily having someone say either “oh, that’s not so bad because” or “oh, I know just how you feel.”

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