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If it’s a choice between two guys, you are not ready to make a choice.

You should be with only ONE guy at a time, and evaluating him on his merits for his potential as a lifemate.

If you’re with two guys right now, you’ve been doing it all wrong.

If the choice is not clear between two, your choice should clearly be neither.

Why? There is no “rule” that you can only date one guy at a time, despite what chev.jame thinks.
Society would like you to be monogamous but that is entirely up to you. Live how you want to live.

always be with the last person you fell in love with, coz if you really loved the first, you wouldnt have fallen for the second

Monogamy doesn’t have to mean monotony!

But evaluate “John” on his own merits, and not in comparison to “Bill.” John is right for you, or he isn’t. Same goes for Bill.

Compare cars, blenders, and houses you are interested in buying–but not people!

I’m a Sagittarius female and there’s nothing I love more than juggling many men at once. I collect them and even refer to them as “my men”. To keep everyone happy assume they are doing the same, never sleep with them, let them wine and dine you, have fun, absorb everything these connections have to offer and when it doesn’t work out no worries, always keep me in waiting. I have men just waiting to hear from me. I keep my dating to a manageable number (2) then if one doesn’t work I call the next one in line. I usually have 2 dates per weekend. Try it. You’ll like it. Forget sleeping around though. Sleeping with anyone will tie you down emotionally. It’s better to have fun. Wait for that special one to fall in love with and the intimacy should only match the level of commitment.