Find help: should you go out with someone you don’t find good looking - Help.com

Yes, you should absolutely try it. My sister did this and ended up falling completely in love.

Its not a case of should you, but more do you want to? and if you like the personality of someone, the looks really don’t matter because you kind of get used to what you don’t like. You can never get used to a personality you don’t like, or you- can but you will struggle :)

thing is, i’ve never met anyone who gets me like he does and i don’t know if i ever will, we have history and i’ve known him for years and i don’t know i’ll ever find someone-and i know thats a terrible terrible reason for doing something and don’t worry i won’t act based on that, that’s selfish.

but i was just wondering if i should give it more thought, i mean i am not attracted to this guy at all. i do not find him good looking what-so-ever..

i meant going out as in dating i suppose, thing is i reckon if i were to suggest it, something more that is, they’d be fully up for it, i’m pretty much realising this as i’m writing this..just feel a bit awkward about that now!

erm i dunno i’ve tried meeting them casually before and well its just a bit of a flop, if i were to meet them again it’d have to be romantic and i’d have to decide to go in that direction with them first

AlcyONE wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
i meant going out as in dating i suppose, thing is i reckon if i were to suggest it, something more that is, they’d be fully up for it, i’m pretty much realising this as i’m writing this..just feel a bit awkward about that now!

erm i dunno i’ve tried meeting them casually before and well its just a bit of a flop, if i were to meet them again it’d have to be romantic and i’d have to decide to go in that direction with them first

It doesn’t sound to me like that’s the direction you want to go. If he can’t or doesn’t respect that, then he isn’t much of a friend to begin with, is he?

no, really he’s great, he’s not pushing it or anything but yeh i don’t want to go in that direction i guess, just wanted to make sure i wasn’t closing off the option just because i was too scared to think about it/give it a try

major problem is, he’s a bit camp lol

awh thank you, thank you for your thoughts and time, much appreciated and erm..whats the golden rule? lol!