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I don’t have any friends, my family is messed up, and I’m pretty sure the person I like doesn’t like me back.

I’ve liked him for a year now. There’s a girl I used to be friends with, and in school she talks to other people but she says hi on chat, so I say hi back. I said WAY too much about my emotions to her and she feels sorry for me. I know thats the only reason she talks to me. I was mean to her, I don’t know what to do now. HELP?

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MermaidMisty offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Focus on you. You can’t control what your family does, or what your crush does, or what your sorta-friend does, but you can control yourself. Work hard to mold yourself into the kind of person that you want to be, and then the kind of people you want around you will come crawling out of the woodwork to hang out with you.

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yummypotatoes21 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

I already tried that…I ended up feeling guilty all the time and now I do things to avoid guilt.

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MermaidMisty offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Don’t avoid guilt. Address why you feel guilty, and then you’ll find what may be your main issue. Then you work through that, and you’ll be that much closer to living a happy (now mostly guilt-free!) life.

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