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Leaving the City of Regret

Pause, and think about this…..

by: Larry Harp

I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year, and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly. This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no real good would come of it. I’m talking about my annual “Guilt Trip.”

I got tickets to fly there on Wish I Had airlines. It was an extremely short flight. I got my baggage, which I could not check. I chose to carry it myself all the way. It was weighted down with a thousand memories of what might have been. No one greeted me as I entered the terminal to the Regret City International Airport. I say international because people from all over the world come to this dismal town.

As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed that they would be hosting the year’s most important event, the Annual Pity Party. I wasn’t going to miss that great social occasion. Many of the towns leading citizens would be there.

First, there would be the Done family, you know, Should Have, Would Have and Could Have. Then came the I Had family. You probably know ol’ Wish and his clan. Of course, the Opportunities would be present, Missed and Lost. The biggest family would be the Yesterday’s. There are far too many of them to count, but each one would have a very sad story to share.

Then Shattered Dreams would surely make and appearance. And It’s Their Fault would regale us with stories (excuses) about how things had failed in his life, and each story would be loudly applauded by Don’t Blame Me and I Couldn’t Help It.

Well, to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became very depressed. But as I thought about all of the stories of failures brought back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent “pity party” could be cancelled by ME! I started to truly realize that I did not have to be there. I didn’t have to be depressed. One thing kept going through my mind, I CAN’T CHANGE YESTERDAY, BUT I DO HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE TODAY A WONDERFUL DAY. I can be happy, joyous, fulfilled, encouraged, as well as encouraging. Knowing this, I left the City of Regret immediately and left no forwarding address. Am I sorry for mistakes I’ve made in the past? YES! But there is no physical way to undo them.

So, if you’re planning a trip back to the City of Regret, please cancel all your reservations now. Instead, take a trip to a place called, Starting Again. I liked it so much that I have now taken up permanent residence there. My neighbors, the I Forgive Myselfs and the New Starts are so very helpful. By the way, you don’t have to carry around heavy baggage, because the load is lifted from your shoulders upon arrival. God bless you in finding this great town. If you can find it — it’s in your own heart — please look me up. I live on I Can Do It street.
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I hope you this story will at least touch those who keep dwelling on the past with guilt and regret.

Have a nice day! :) x

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Love the story, and very pleased you have returned to happy street.
Let’s have a party…….

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

FatB.Three wrote:
Love the story, and very pleased you have returned to happy street.
Let’s have a party…….

Glad you liked it, the party is on and ALL drinks on me. Whaaaay! can’t wait to meet you ;)

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Leaving the City of Regret
Pause, and think about this…..

by: Larry Harp

I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year, and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly. This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no real good would come of it. I’m talking about my annual “Guilt Trip.”

I got tickets to fly there on Wish I Had airlines. It was an extremely short flight. I got my baggage, which I could not check. I chose to carry it myself all the way. It was weighted down with a thousand memories of what might have been. No one greeted me as I entered the terminal to the Regret City International Airport. I say international because people from all over the world come to this dismal town.

As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed that they would be hosting the year’s most important event, the Annual Pity Party. I wasn’t going to miss that great social occasion. Many of the towns leading citizens would be there.

First, there would be the Done family, you know, Should Have, Would Have and Could Have. Then came the I Had family. You probably know ol’ Wish and his clan. Of course, the Opportunities would be present, Missed and Lost. The biggest family would be the Yesterday’s. There are far too many of them to count, but each one would have a very sad story to share.

Then Shattered Dreams would surely make and appearance. And It’s Their Fault would regale us with stories (excuses) about how things had failed in his life, and each story would be loudly applauded by Don’t Blame Me and I Couldn’t Help It.

Well, to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became very depressed. But as I thought about all of the stories of failures brought back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent “pity party” could be cancelled by ME! I started to truly realize that I did not have to be there. I didn’t have to be depressed. One thing kept going through my mind, I CAN’T CHANGE YESTERDAY, BUT I DO HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE TODAY A WONDERFUL DAY. I can be happy, joyous, fulfilled, encouraged, as well as encouraging. Knowing this, I left the City of Regret immediately and left no forwarding address. Am I sorry for mistakes I’ve made in the past? YES! But there is no physical way to undo them.

So, if you’re planning a trip back to the City of Regret, please cancel all your reservations now. Instead, take a trip to a place called, Starting Again. I liked it so much that I have now taken up permanent residence there. My neighbors, the I Forgive Myselfs and the New Starts are so very helpful. By the way, you don’t have to carry around heavy baggage, because the load is lifted from your shoulders upon arrival. God bless you in finding this great town. If you can find it — it’s in your own heart — please look me up. I live on I Can Do It street.
—————————

I hope you this story will at least touch those who keep dwelling on the past with guilt and regret.

Have a nice! :) x

Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I enjoyed your post, too.

I spent May 1st in the City of Regrets…it was the anniversary of the loss of a friendship that was very valuable to me. It may be a few more days before I’m able request a refund and find a happier place.

But, it was a nice reminder that I don’t have to just sit here and be lonely; I can -and will- make new friends who are important to me, and who will care for me and respect me in return.

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Dragon_Lady wrote:
I enjoyed your post, too.

I spent May 1st in the City of Regrets…it was the anniversary of the loss of a friendship that was very valuable to me. It may be a few more days before I’m able request a refund and find a happier place.

But, it was a nice reminder that I don’t have to just sit here and be lonely; I can -and will- make new friends who are important to me, and who will care for me and respect me in return.

Hey Dragon_Lady, I understand your sorrow over the lost friendship, its tough when its valuable. I am so pleased the post came at the right time for you. You are right, given time you will have other truly valuable friends that you can enjoy and trust. Life will take a new turn with new encounters and experiences that you can treasure and learn from. I hope its not long for you :)

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its_me offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Hi…you posted a comment on my post just recently and asked me to take a look at this specific post of yours…….i have to say that after reading this, it will truly change my life…i mean why focus on the past when doing so isnt gona bring any good…instead we should focus on what is now and ahead of us because this is the only thing we can change…
its a new day…

thank you for this post….

thumbs upp:D

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

Hi @its_me, its really encouraging to read that this post has been helpful to you.
Its easy to get caught up in moments where we drag unnecessary baggage and self-pity. We need to be reminded that the past is all done and dusted and we have to use it to simply learn from, not dwell on. We have to keep moving forward and we can’t do that while constantly looking over our shoulders. Im sure you will agree.

I wish you wonderful things ahead, keep smiling :)

@LittleBean: I wish you the same and thank you! :)

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