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PMS I made a horrible mistake last night.

During a bad bout of PMS I broke up with my perfect boyfriend, only to immediately beg him back. 3 weeks out of the month I am 100% in love and the 4th week he gets under my skin and I’m clingy and insecure. He knows how I get has been very patient and understanding up until now (we’ve been dating for 2 years). I’ve tried councling, Prozac, and herbal remedies. 5HTP was wonderful and held me over flawlessly for 4 months, but this month it suddenly stopped working. My boyfriend has always said I have nothing to worry about and that we are wonderful together, but now he’s saying that he has doubts about our relationship and needs time to himself. He wants to see me either sat or sunday, but doesn’t want me to try to contact him until then. I’m super worried. I know that I can’t keep using my hormones as an excuse. What should I do?

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enkindled offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Birth control pills help me wih my mood.

What kind? I’ve tried several brands and they all seem to make me worse. Like I’m constantly PMSing until I get to the blank pills. I can’t seem to tolerate them.

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (43 minutes after post)

You could look at this page: http://www.earthclinic.com/CURES/PMS….

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I made a horrible mistake last night. During a bad bout of PMS I broke up with my perfect boyfriend, only to immediately beg him back. 3 weeks out of the month I am 100% in love and the 4th week he gets under my skin and I’m clingy and insecure. He knows how I get has been very patient and understanding up until now (we’ve been dating for 2 years). I’ve tried councling, Prozac, and herbal remedies. 5HTP was wonderful and held me over flawlessly for 4 months, but this month it suddenly stopped working. My boyfriend has always said I have nothing to worry about and that we are wonderful together, but now he’s saying that he has doubts about our relationship and needs time to himself. He wants to see me either sat or sunday, but doesn’t want me to try to contact him until then. I’m super worried. I know that I can’t keep using my hormones as an excuse. What should I do?

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enkindled offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Rosabella wrote:
You could look at this page: http://www.earthclinic.com/CURES/PMS….

Have you tried apple cider vinegar?! I didn’t know people used it for that. I wonder if the tablets are just as effective.

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

A teaspoon in a glass of water tastes surprisingly delicious. But it has to be organic apple cider vinegar (Bragg’s if possible). No I haven’t tried it for PMS.

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1 year ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

I don’t get PMS that often but usually if i feel mentally bad I just try to avoid any discussions where I might overreact or say something I’ll regret. I do that until my mental pain is gone and it actually works for me. I’m not sure if it will work for you, but you can try. Just try to relax, i mean it’s all in your head. Sometimes i hate my mind for that reason :/

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I don’t get PMS that often but usually if i feel mentally bad I just try to avoid any discussions where I might overreact or say something I’ll regret. I do that until my mental pain is gone and it actually works for me. I’m not sure if it will work for you, but you can try. Just try to relax, i mean it’s all in your head. Sometimes i hate my mind for that reason :/

I’m hoping he gives me another chance to try. I’m so miserable right now.

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