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I have known this amazing guy for thirteen years,we

used to be friends when we were little and then we got close and became best friends as we got older,now i have fallen for him really hard…i love him and i can’t imagine anyone that i trust more.
There is a little uniqueness to this situation because he is 7 years older then I.
I really love him and yes we are both adults here lol
i think he feels the same way,i can feel the whole demeanor of our relationship changing and i know that he is it for me,,i just hope he can to…
has anyone ever been in a similar situation??
and what do you think i should do??
Thanks in advance =)

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 hours, 48 minutes after post)

you’re both adults as in you’re older than 18?
and no offense, but you can’t know that “he is it for me” until you at least date him. yeah, he might be a great guy, but would he make a great boyfriend, husband, father? you haven’t a clue. take it easy and don’t go crazy.

obviously if you like him, you should ask him out.

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