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I think Im at my last straw.
I was giving my children a bath, my youngest has a wierd fear of the water. She’s never fell or almost drowned, she just doesn’t like it. So she was screaming her head off while I was trying to wash her hair. My bf slammed the door. When I was done I gave him a look like wtf. He said he didn’t want to hear that crap. That when he was watching them for me, they didnt act like that. So I said how should I handle it then. Maybe if you would help me Ill see what he does different and can improve. He said no ‘they are retarded howler monkeys you need to spank them and stop letting them run all over you. My youngest is a year old. She’s scared. Why would I spank her if she is already freaked about bath time. Later after the bath I was reading her a book. While I was she turned the page and was pointing at characters in the book and making noises. I was telling her the name of the characters, then I started pointing and telling who my favorite are, and asked her hers. He said shes just making noises. She doesnt have a favorite she doesn’t know what your saying. She doesnt know anything. I believe that just cause babies cant talk yet doesnt mean they dont know what they mean, and what we mean for that matter. He’s starting to upset me with this. I know he doesn’t have children of his own, so its hard for him to understand. But I want a relationship where were a family. Not just the chick and kids I live with.
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