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I am not sure what to do right now.

My stepdad had commited suicide around a week and a half ago, i had to quit my job to be around the house and help my mom. My exgirlfriend is back in my life, there is one other girl i am interested in. I need to find a job. Id like to get someones advice on what to do from here, i am not sure what i want. I do know that i would love to get back with jessica (my ex) but im afraid of getting hurt again. I am kinda sick of dealing with my mom and the stuff around the house but i am going to have to get used to it. and i need to find a job in a town with hardly anywhere to work where the **** high schoolers have all the jobs.

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KickingKittens offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I’m sorry to hear about your stepdad. I know it’s a ***** to be looking out for your mother but she must be going through a lot right now, y’know?
ANYWAYS. Don’t go back to your ex. There was a reason you guys broke up in the first place. I mean, if it didn’t work out the first time, it won’t work out the second.
Good luck with finding a job, yo. Maybe you can use the money to get the hell outta there xD

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cassidyflash1 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

I think you should focus on your mom rather than deciding on whether or not you should get back together with your ex. That is not important right now. As for a job, the only thing you can do right now is apply for jobs anywhere you can and hope for the best. I’m sorry to hear about your stepdad, and I hope I didn’t come off rude at first, it’s just your mom is hurting and she needs you right now; I know she may be difficult to handle, but her husband just died and I’m pretty sure it’s extremely hard for her. Best of luck to you.

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