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how do you love yourself when no one else loves or cares about you?


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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Do your favorites things.
Eat your favorite foods.
Remind yourself of the things you’ve done well.

Just treat yourself the same way you would treat someone else you love.

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HappilyTanned offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

you need love yourself for precisely that reason.

if no one is willing to have enough integrity to realize your worth…

and love you in a natural response.

then you owe it to yourself to appreciate yourself and love yourself.

you are worth it. not because of what you do or your background…or your

future. You cannot control what others do or think…BUT.

YOU can control your own actions and thought.
YOU have a choice to blink, breath, look up or down.
YOU have a choice to acknowledge your worth. Love is a choice.

You can choose to love yourself and then let your actions follow.

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 hours after post)

1. Do NOT ever depend on others to make yourself feel good. That is a recipe for disaster. It will lead you to doing all kinds of silly things to get approval and appreciation and it will open you up to manipulation.

2. If you want to love yourself, you need to sit down and write out the top 7 things you are proudest of accomplishing. THen write out a story for each one of how you accomplished it. THen think about those amazing skills you used and the people you worked with.

Go out and find more opportunities to use those skills and keep building on it.

A confidence and self-appreciation and self-love will turn your life around and draw people to you.

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whatshouldidowefound offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Oh, but the real question is really “How can anyone else love or care about you if you can’t love and care about yourself first?” Set the example for others to follow.

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1 year ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

Jesus loves you 3

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TreasureMap offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Jesus loves you 3

Yes! Always know the Lord is in Heaven and He loves you no matter what!

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