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I need help!

! i’m being used sexually by my teacher, don’t know what to do!!
I’m in university and have been having troubles in grades (regarding to past issues.) My english teacher knows about everything happened to me ( sexually abused,lost friend, failing grades..) he started to approach to me in a really understanding and caring way, we started sharing our problems and everything until he started to ask for more. He offered to put really high grades which i need it badly to pass this semester but in return he wants to get involved sexually, he tried to touch me and kiss me and i couldn’t stop it.. i knew if i stopped he was going to fail me and i just can’t afford it. I don’t know what to do and i’m depended on him but i’m really scared, he’s above 40 and i’m just 20. What should i do?

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I’m in university and have been having troubles in grades (regarding to past issues.) My english teacher knows about everything happened to me ( sexually abused,lost friend, failing grades..) he started to approach to me in a really understanding and caring way, we started sharing our problems and everything until he started to ask for more. He offered to put really high grades which i need it badly to pass this semester but in return he wants to get involved sexually, he tried to touch me and kiss me and i couldn’t stop it.. i knew if i stopped he was going to fail me and i just can’t afford it. I don’t know what to do and i’m depended on him but i’m really scared, he’s above 40 and i’m just 20. What should i do?

ConsueloOwners 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

Stop him. The universe is gonna get on your side if you stick up for yourself. Talk to a counselor at the campus. Get your grades from your own resurces starting now. Like star to study right now so he will have no reason to fail you. Stop it. You can do it. Do it for yourself or for the other girls that Will come in the future.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Tell someone above him at the uni, don’t worry about your grades, the uni will be so worried about you suing them for what he did that they’ll give you anything.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Go to the ombudsperson in the university and report him. It is a serious matter. Don’t be scared! Why are you failing? Did you study or you don’t understand what you need to study?

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Talhk 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I have been dealing with depression for a year or so..and i’m on medication which really effected on my concentration hence i can’t score in any exams, i just didn’t need this again :(

Talhk 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

gladysduenezreyn wrote:
Stop him. The universe is gonna get on your side if you stick up for yourself. Talk to a counselor at the campus. Get your grades from your own resurces starting now. Like star to study right now so he will have no reason to fail you. Stop it. You can do it. Do it for yourself or for the other girls that Will come in the future.

Anonymous wrote:
Tell someone above him at the uni, don’t worry about your grades, the uni will be so worried about you suing them for what he did that they’ll give you anything.

beatricegalant wrote:
Go to the ombudsperson in the university and report him. It is a serious matter. Don’t be scared! Why are you failing? Did you study or you don’t understand what you need to study?

I’m afraid they won’t believe me and need a proof which i don’t have unless i give in again and let him hurt me until he admits ..

ConsueloOwners 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

You have yourself. If you report him with confidence and with details, people are going to believe you. It is absolutely normal being scare ’cause if you weren’t it will only mean you don’t care. Don’t see it as an obstacle see it as a motive.
But if you really believe you shouldn’t do it, i guess this words have no purpose. Do what is best for your body, heart and life. If you believe you should do it and that what he’s doing is not right Girl Do It. If people don’t believe you is shame on them.
Let us know what happen.