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My after prom plans involve things I don’t want to be a part of and I don’t know how to get out!

Sorry about the terrible punctuation. I typed this in a bit of a hurry.

Prom is next weekend. Friday. I’m a junior and I got asked to go by a Senior to go to his prom. Well my friend is having a camp out at her house afterwards with the group we are going with. In the group is all seniors who are very social (I’m super shy)and also coming with their boyfriends/girlfriends. My date is going home after the prom, so I’ll be left with a bunch of drunk and high seniors who I don’t talk to much. I KNOW someone if not everyone is going to be having sex, so I’m going to be SO AWKWARD as soon as my date leaves. I definitely don’t want to get high and make a fool of myself then be the odd one out, but I wanna party afterwards, and I don’t know anyone else having parties so I’m thinking of going home. I need an excuse to get out of this though! What should I say? Its my bestfriend having this bon fire and this is happening down the street from my house, so it wont be easy to get out of if my excuse is staying home. What do I say?? How do I get out?

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sweetness offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

Blame it on your parents?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

You could develop a terrible headache or tell her your parents suspect illegal activity will happen and aren’t allowing you to go.

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1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Your date is going home after the prom. He isn’t worried about what anyone will think of it. Neither should you. Follow his lead and bow out of the ‘after party’. You don’t need to make any excuses. Believe me, you’re absence isn’t going to stop their party.

Why don’t you talk to your parents about having your own ‘after party’ for a few friends? Maybe others would like an alternative to the ‘drinking/sex’ party. There’s no way I’d be part of an unchaperoned group of drinking teens. Sounds like an arrest/trouble waiting to happen.

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