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Its just a biochemical addiction. In a few months it will wear off.

OMG

Vacation from Stress wrote:
Its just a biochemical addiction. In a few months it will wear off.

Refering to the feeling of being in love.

Like for rvenge?

Theres love but i think your ex has killed the real love. Now whats left will fade away.

I don’t know what you all are saying, but for me personally, I know that such tragedy is really hard, and that if you think about the past or the issue, it hurts, so my tendency would be to be present and try to be in a better place emotionally than in the thoughts and memories that drag me down. And I did try other things, like trying to achieve “closure” or “understanding” or to “get over it” but in the end I never understood anything about the most difficult situations so I just try to make the most of what is still here to have in life.

Can you get your money back from him, hire a lawyer?

lealsaira wrote:
I can he changed everything to his brothers name and i have no evidence. all i found was one receipt for $2300 that deposited to his brother. and the receipt of a machine for 6,000 that is not under my name so i guess not. i really dont care about to money or material **** at this moment i just want this to stop hurting.

That is a good reason to stop hurting.

Call a lawyer tomorrow. I don’t think he can possibly do all that legally.

Wrong? No. But not very rational. You have to take care of you. You tried to take care of him, and he intentionally and deliberately hurt you. You will be suffering for years over his behavior, while he will be having great nights on the town at your expense.

See a lawyer tomorrow, and insist on what is rightfully yours. Later, when you’ve stopped seeing him through the chemically enhanced rose-colored glasses, you’ll be thankful you did.

That’s unbelievable! Are you having financial crisis? Ask a friend, talk to family members. Find a solution to this pain.

ANYTIME. We may be cyber strangers, but don’t doubt that there will be people who may actually want to help you through the pain. You just need ot ask for it and do you have family to talk to? Are you able to manage now that your job’s been taken away?

lealsaira, you are a good person and good people ALWAYS come out on top. What he has done to you shows he has problems and those problems will eventually get the better of him, you know, karma etc? You are going to be fine. Take it one day at a time and start to rebuild. The first things has to be your self esteem and your health. Make sure you eat properly especially fruit and veg, not to much cakes and coookies and candies etc, exercise to ensure you sleep properly, make yourself look presentable, watch movies, read books, keep yourself occupied. Have a room to decorate or a garden to de-weed? Do something energic, get yourself moving NOW. Don’t fall backwards because of this, move forward back into the light. Your father will get better especially when he sees you looking better and feeling better.

Many people have been in worst debts etc than you and you can rebuild. Your dad needs to know you will be fine in order to recover. You have the power to make everything right again, in time. You are a phoenix. You can do this. You are the better person in this relationship. Don’t blame yourself for trusting and loving, because there are many who deserve to be trusted and loved so keep an open mind in the future and don’t punish yourself or another for this one’s behaviours. When you finally find out why he did it, you will find out he is a truly troubled soul and it has ABSOLULTLEY NOTHING to do with YOU. You are a good person. Remember that. Look in the mirror and say to yourself, ‘I am a good person and I deserve to be loved.’ Remind yourself of that every hour you are awake. Don’t start taking it to mean that you aren’t good enough. You certainly are, always was and always will be.

You now have permission to put yourself FIRST. Buy yourself treats, pamper yourself, do things within your budget such as having long over indulgent bubble baths where you keep on topping up the hot water, stay in there as long as you like, enjoy, and painting your toenails with two tones of nail varnish. Takes time yes, but do it slowly carefully and indulgenty. Why, because you love yourself and you are worth it. There are loads of petty indulgences we girls can do that do not break the bank like baking (healthy) cakes, biscuits (cookies) and bread or experimenting with false eyelashes or nails. So what if it doesn’t come out right? It was worth the effort and it’s all about getting yourself refocused on the rest of your life which is going to be far better than all this you are going through right now.

You will look back on this one day with a great big smile because this is going to ensure you have a better future. You will never go through this again, ever. You are a fighter. You are going to win. Promise.

You are going to be fine. Good news on the new job and everything you deserve will be yours because you are not a bad person. Always remember that. Re friends, when you start to love yourself more, you will attract new and better friends. Remember to pamper yourself weekly as a self love treatment. As indulgent as the budget allows. It’s fun!