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First of all, I barely understand a word you said. Second of all, from what I’m able to understand, I kind of know how you feel. I used to be worried about taking risks but then I realized that if I don’t, my life will stay the same, if I do, I can make a positive change in my life. Also, if you quit your job to be with your boyfriend and he got a job, don’t say it was for nothing. As long as both your schedules are flexible you could spend more time together anyway. Why do you find so many people boring? Have you ever really gotten to know someone? If not, maybe that’s why they seem boring. Someone isn’t going to tell you their life story as soon as they meet you.

Trust me though, one day you will find motivations for something once you find that you like it (try something new; painting, skateboarding, singing, swimming), you should be able to keep a friend eventually, just find someone you’re compatible with, and it’s not that important to have a boyfriend. If you truly do see you getting married to him and having a happy life with him then stay with him. But he has to try and make things easy for you too, you can’t keep giving up things just for him.

I’m not sure if any of that answered your question(s)? But overall, just try not to be sad, unless you may have depression, then you should discuss that. But, if you’re just sad, you really have nothing to be sad about, I’ve had it worse and even I’ve gotten over them.

The most important: “Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”
(Eleanor Roosevelt, 1901 – 1962)

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