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Stupid question about body shape

Mainly for guys, I’m pear shaped, kinda like Beyonce (that meas my upper body is on the smaller side, I have a small, defined waist, wide hips and really thick thighs). I always hear women saying that she’s too big, disproportionate or that her legs are too big and look bad… but I wonder if men feel the same way? I’ve always felt self conscious about my thick legs, my legs are firm (I work out), but they’re thick and “round” and yeah they look big compared to my upper body. I was wondering if despite this my body type is attractive to men.

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Dagoth Ur (S. M.) offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

It all depends on the guy. Different guys have different tastes.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

I’ve heard Brazilian guys like big thighs. This might be utter BS for all that I know, but I swear someone told me that. I bet you are perfectly attractive.

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Lawn Ornament offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Your body type sounds very attractive to me.

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