boyfriend help: alright so last night I got drunk with my best friend, her boyfriend and 2 of our other guy friends. - Help.com

It’s a shock to know that one of your close friends have been self-harming. Believe you me, some people are confused as to how to help you deal with it. They haven’t seen the pain you have seen nor felt it so it’s only natural that bringing you to the hospital would be his immediate response. It’s actually a good thing that you’ve told someone though, because as long as you trust this person, they’ll hold you accountable and you don’t have to feel the need to be so secretive. If you’re really pained and anxious about his reaction to the situation, my clearest advice would be communication. Tell him how you feel and listen to how your friends feel too. Chances are they care for you and are scared for your health. It’s a delicate decision for either of you guys to address. Other than that, what’s done is done. Although you were drunk, I’m sure telling your friends will benefit you more than it will harm you.

Well atuf like that is realy hard to keep it in because it will burn you from the inside out so it was a good thing you told them and they worry about you because they, u don’t have to be scare to go to the hospital it’s just a mother way to get help because cutting ur self is not the answer or the best way to diel with problems like that because iwhat if some day your realy go over board and realy hurt your self in a bad way then what ? But if you need to talk to some one I’m here to talk :)

He was just looking out for you. This will give you greater incentive to stop. You should be glad that your friends were so good about it. Don’t regret it :)

You will never be alone we all are here to help you, we all have problems and we can help each other Hun :)

I can’t understand what you’ve been through, but I know that your friend’s boyfriend really means well by intending to keep his word about taking you to the hospital. Hurting yourself is a serious matter, if you can’t stop yourself, I think he is doing just the right thing by making sure to take you to people who can give you extra help.

We’ll talk you down too :) As Kevin said, you aren’t alone. We all want you to be healthy and happy.

Don’t regret having close friends that love u& care if you’ll hurting, happy or scared. It is a good thing to be able to be that open with anyone.

Best of wishes. (:

he cares about you… sounds like a lot. it is good that you have came forward give a up date here soon

tell him that it scares you and that it is not to avoid help