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My GF is acting suspicious!! Ok 6 months ago I met my GF and her 5 yr old daughter. Things seem to be going Ok we dated and hung out a lot.I work a ton of hours which does not leave much time for a spontaneous social life. Then she started acting shady. I gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking the pressures of be a single mother were
stressing her out. Ok so one day we get in to the car and the little girl kept calling me another guys name. I said who is that? Her mother interrupted and said oh she is just confused. Then we are hanging out and I am asked to hand her the cell phone, the text on the screen was from a guy saying he missed her body. So I started checking around. The guy is the girls father. Apparently she has been in contact with him the whole time texting,yahoo, and Facebook the whole time we were together. Her cell was on my account so I decided to view the numbers being called and messaged. The GF and her kid’s father having been texting all day every day into the early hours of the morning. My GF turned everything around and got really defensive when I confronted her with this.She said they were in contact over child support, and my response was, missing your body and texting until 3 am every night (thousands of texts)is about child support?? This explained a lot, because she was growing more distant and cold with me every day. The kicker is I paid for everything and have the means to provide a good life for her and her daughter. She had told me previously that every one of her past BF including the kids father was jealous,controlling, and possessive.Her mother actually warned me on 2 separate occasions that her daughter was not GF material because she was stuck on the kids father. I think her open nature towards having other guys around and keeping company with other guys while the BF is at work is the problem. She has a ton of contacts in her phone all abbreviated mostly guys the girls names are spelled out. Basically when this women is with her BF physically everything is fine and the minute the BF is not around all bets are off. There were way too many indicators to ignore.She wants a ton of guy friends and wants freedom to do as she chooses yet she expects her BF to not have so many friends, and keep his mouth shut about everything she does. Am I wrong? was it wrong to be concerned about a text saying he missed her body and checking the cell records to confirm things?

My GF is acting suspicious!! Ok 6 months ago I met my GF and her 5 yr old daughter. Things seem to be going Ok we dated and hung out a lot.I work a ton of hours which does not leave much time for a spontaneous social life. Then she started acting shady. I gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking the pressures of be a single mother were
stressing her out. Ok so one day we get in to the car and the little girl kept calling me another guys name. I said who is that? Her mother interrupted and said oh she is just confused. Then we are hanging out and I am asked to hand her the cell phone, the text on the screen was from a guy saying he missed her body. So I started checking around. The guy is the girls father. Apparently she has been in contact with him the whole time texting,yahoo, and Facebook the whole time we were together. Her cell was on my account so I decided to view the numbers being called and messaged. The GF and her kid’s father having been texting all day every day into the early hours of the morning. My GF turned everything around and got really defensive when I confronted her with this.She said they were in contact over child support, and my response was, missing your body and texting until 3 am every night (thousands of texts)is about child support?? This explained a lot, because she was growing more distant and cold with me every day. The kicker is I paid for everything and have the means to provide a good life for her and her daughter. She had told me previously that every one of her past BF including the kids father was jealous,controlling, and possessive.Her mother actually warned me on 2 separate occasions that her daughter was not GF material because she was stuck on the kids father. I think her open nature towards having other guys around and keeping company with other guys while the BF is at work is the problem. She has a ton of contacts in her phone all abbreviated mostly guys the girls names are spelled out. Basically when this women is with her BF physically everything is fine and the minute the BF is not around all bets are off. There were way too many indicators to ignore.She wants a ton of guy friends and wants freedom to do as she chooses yet she expects her BF to not have so many friends, and keep his mouth shut about everything she does. Am I wrong? was it wrong to be concerned and checking the cell records to confirm things?