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So there is this guy that I’ve known for years, I always suspected that he had a thing for me but he’s younger, so I really didn’t want to go there.

(He’s 22, and I’m about to turn 30) but now that we are older I figured that maybe we could give it a shot. He texts me just about everyday just to talk, and he seemed really interested in me. So today he asked me if I was shy, and I told him not really, but he said he feels that I act shy around him. I told him that sometimes when I really like a guy I can be shy around him at times, and he asked me if I liked him, and I basically said yes. I asked him if he liked me and he told me that he had always had a crush on me and still does but that he just recently got into a relationship and doesn’t believe in cheating. Thing is, I don’t believe he really has a girlfriend, because over the past few months that we have been communicating he has never mentioned that he had a girlfriend, and his relationship status still says single, and if he has a girl, then why is he texting me all the time instead of her….just doesn’t add up to me. So my question is, why would a guy lie about having a girlfriend if he does seem to be interested in you? Please help me out on this one

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Maybe he has just had a date or two with the new girl. Some guys take their time with girls. I was never into trying to date two at once, one is hard enough to please.

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aleslie8 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

I guess that could be what it is. I’m just to see what happens…but if anything does happen he’s going to have to be the one to make the first move

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Sucess offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

Yes Listen to dr ralph

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Cause hes 22, and hes a afraid that you want a serious relationship, a father, a husband, provider or whatever, and hes not ready to step it up to that

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