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What should I do?

I have lived with my mum for the past two years after her and my dad got divorced. My dad came back for our sake and has been staying with us for four months. Today my mum and dad got into a fight and my mum thinks that he is going to leave again. She says she wants me to go and live with my dad while she goes to another town to look for a job. I don’t really like my dad because he has so much ego and anger issues and whenever I am near him he just makes me mad. This has been affecting my grades. I love my mom because she is gentle loving and caring and also I find it really easy and fun to live with her. So, my mom wants me to live with him for 3-6 months. But I don’t and I cannot because my dad is so annoying. So who should I live with?? I love my mom more than my dad. please reply as soon as possible because I am really depressed and in need of some other opinions.

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LadyLeo offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about your dad. She divorced him so she probably feels the same way. If it is that your mom needs time away to find a job, then stay with your day for six months so that she can find work and take care of the both of you. Then, you will not have to live with him any longer than that.
While you are with him kiss his *** and treat him like a king. Perhaps that will make him less annoying. It might even go well if you do that. It is only six months then you never have to see him again.

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Sucess offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Ms. Future See Getting Is Giving.

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LadyLeo offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

I don’t want anyone else to feel the way I feel. It hurts. Someone should be happy.

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Sucess offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

I like that.!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

If you really love your mom you will do what she has asked you to do.

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Your mom would not have asked you to stay with your dad if she really didn’t feel like she didn’t have a choice. She knows how you feel but right now she needs to make sure you are safe while she takes care of other important things.

Bear with her for now and do what she is telling you. You will be with her again. She will appreciate your understanding.

As for your dad, try and stay out of his way and focus on your studies. You never know, perhaps he might calm down now its just you and him. Either way, just do your best to keep the peace for your sake.

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