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sometimes i wonder if it would be better for both me

and my boyfriend to break up but i love him so much and he has been in my life for over 2 and a half years, im only 18 so i know i still have plenty of time to find the One but i just dont know, plus my bf has anger issues an im scared if i leave him he will flip out. i wish things were simple like they used to be. plz any advice would be helpful

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abcdefghijklmnopqrst offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

if u in anyway scared of your bf you should not be in a relationship with him. and if u think about it 2 and a half years isn’t very long…. people are together for much longer than that and break up! find the strength!! and find someone perfect for you :)

good luck

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sarisa_grimwing offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

He’s young, you are young, if he already has anger issues those are issues he has to work on, my opinion on that matter, seek someone to help you and split from him. You can be there for him but tell him you’d rather do so as a friend rather than a GF because you just aren’t comfortable. He should understand if he knows he has anger issues.
If you are afraid of breaking up because you’re afraid he’s going to flip… that is a very unhealthy relationship, you should never have to worry or be scared like that.

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 51 minutes after post)

If you “love him so much” you will find it very difficult to break-up with him. There is however, good reason to move on with your life; his anger issues which are clearly not compatible with you.

So, are you going to follow your emotions and put up with his anger ans see where all that will lead you OR will you find the courage to step out, and believe there is someone much better for you who you can love probably more and for all the right reasons…your call.

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