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Hear me out a minute.

So you know all these religious people who oppose gay marriage as marriage is a ‘religious commitment between a man and a woman’, and that allowing gay marriage will destroy it’s value and what not. Well, i just thought about that ‘religious’ part of there statement. If a straight couple wish to marry but are not religious, should they be subjected to civil partnership instead??:/ If these religious people are going to defend it with that statement should they not go the whole 9 miles?

In my view, over the past century marriage has strayed away from the possesion of the church. This probably started with increasing deforce rates does that not imply marriage is already devalued. People get married nowadays religious or not, without needing the permission of the church. It is disregarded by most (or in England at least), as we’ve already broken the bond between church and marriage why should we allow this to slow our progression into a more equal and intergrated society. I understand the religious opposion on gay marriage, but i would never support it. Obviously things will never be perfect, but it doesn’t meam we should try to make it so.

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frankenberry6 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

first of all, marriage has been around way longer than the christian church and i believe Christians need to quit acting like they “own it” the ancient Chinese married, the ancient Egyptians married, ancient Romans, etc, etc. marriage was more like a business deal between two land owners or countries, the need for it to be a man and a woman was to produce an heir to govern the land if the man died. it had nothing to do with love or religion. so therefore the church needs to understand their position is mute. Unless they want to say it has to be between a man and woman because it’s only purpose is to procreate. in that case everyone who marries should have to have a child.which is NOT the case. nowadays marriage is about love , so on the basis of that EVERYONE should be allowed to marry when they want to pronounce their love and commitment regardless of the gender of the participants. this is simply logic. religion needs to butt out so to speak.this is about the pursuit of happiness that we are all allowed in the U.S , or so they say:)

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

I think if Jesus walked the earth today, He would actually hang out with certain homosexuals and others that the majority of the contemporary church today thinks are “sinners”

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

I agree somewhat with frankenberry6.

Marriage is MORE than just a spiritual union.
It is social-economic and a binding at many levels.

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

frankenbarry6 wrote:
religion needs to butt out so to speak

Hahahah… ;]

Hmmm…
You make it sound as if only churches have religous people. (No!)

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Wyyldfairy offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

I agree with roofdonkey!

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hillbilly_sound offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

It was adam and eve “not adam and steve”!!!!!!!!

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Wyyldfairy offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Lol Hillbilly!!! once again wishing for a like button…but its true!

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