life help: hi im sooo upset adout my ex who said hes going to tell secrets to his new girlfriend because she deserves to know. - Help.com

I don’t see why he should tell her your secrets?? And if he does why does he need to put you in it? Can’t he keep it anonymous? I’m sorry you are having to deal with this, and I hope things turn out ok…

I understand how you feel. When I was younger my 3rd boyfriend I finally did -things- with had went around telling everyone about it, lied about telling anyone. Broke up with me, and then told everyone many different false things about me. Those rumors followed me up til I was out of high school when they started in middle school. It hurt badly and I had so much trouble trusting again….

That’s why you learn from this. Firstly he’s a terrible person for doing this to you. Those aren’t his to share, you trusted him and that’s indecent and inhumane. secondly, you hold on to those secrets! Wait til you’re much older and find someone juuuust right.

Aren’t you pleased he is out of your life? What a jerk! He should be ashamed and I am sorry this is happening to you, it must hurt very much.

Well not much you can do about it, really. Just pay no attention to him and if I were you I would quit any association with him. He does not deserve your company and he should not be entitled to any more information about your life. Give him nothing more to talk about. He lost that privelage.