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I really like this girl, I’ve known her for years and she’s one of my best friends…

.. The thing is she likes me too. The problem here is that I am a polygamous person/******* that will only end up hurting her, what should I do?? I just lose my emotions for girls in the blink of an eye and I don’t want to put her through that.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

To be a “polygamous person” is a choice only, not a personality condition.
Either you change your choice — or you have to forget her. What else!

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LittleBean offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

Dont put her through it. I’m the same, my feelings for someone will change overnight; it sucks for the other person and it makes you feel like crap. If she’s one of your best friends then just leave it alone because you’ll lose her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

don’t try to create a relationship, force would just create problems. treat yourself well and don’t worry about her. the best thing is that she likes you for who you are. when i made a move on the girl i liked things went horribly wrong so i’d say if anything let her make the first move. just enjoy spending time with her and if you really both want to be together it will happen.

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1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

when feelings can change in the blink of an eye, it was not love, never ever
maybe just horniness, lust, fascination and fantasy, but not love at all
to call oneself polygamous is just an awkward excuse for not to be ready for a real commitment

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